Questions Answered

For the last one week or so I have been in some village working; talking to women about finances. Never mind how I got the job considering my experience. In terms of 'creating change' and ' making an impact' the job was fine. But in terms of mental and physical stimulation rather dull. I couldn't do it for a month. And its a struggle to adjust to a formal setting, with set hours, a boss and targets.  Anyway I am done with the work and coming back to the city. So I am supposed to quit in less than a week? I don't know. I surely don't know.

Meanwhile I have quickly answered some few questions.

13. Hi Sue, I meet a Kenyan lady and became friends with her, because I was better of financially I decided to help her out in any way I could and over a period of about 9 months I have given her $1500 worth of gifts including some cash but she is often rude to me and rarely says thank you to me.

Normally after I have given her something she said she needed she immediatly asks me for something else. I am a white Australian and are not sure if this is normal behavior for Kenyan women. We are not lovers and have never had sex just friends.

Should I end the friendship? as she never gives me anything in return not even a thankyou.


Interesting. Is that the normal behavior of Kenyan girls? It cant be normal but its not surprising.  There were days my off the Street friends who had  white boyfriends seemed confused, adoring and give their all to the whites. 
Anyway its obvious you are not the only man in her life. There must be others who certainly are providing much more than you.  You are for the short term, and to take care of coffee expenses. Yet as much as I partially  admire her for not sucking up to you like some would do,  I also think she is a bit tactless whatever her goals are. There are many in Kenya who would treat you better.

Just open your eyes and channel your cash where you get returns. 


9.Hey Sue, Honestly, are you one of those mamas who start complaining "Maliza haraka, thats enough now. Hujamwaga? Unakaa sana!"? Damn, that is annoying! - Gates

And are you one of those men who drink some brand of liquor and chew green herbs which make you want to go and on forever while its obvious even your senses are drunk? Anyway kidding. Pay me well and I won't complain. Don't expect unlimited time for Ksh.200 no matter the neighborhood we are conducting the business in.


 See 'Ask Sue' above for the rest of questions and answers.



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